The rishta, made the way
our families always have
Sajida introduces families privately. No public profiles, no swiping. A private intake, a short list, and consent from both sides. For Muslim families across the USA and the desi diaspora.
- every introduction, by Sajida
- Personal
- encrypted, never public
- Private
- both families, from day one
- Family-first
“I can’t promise you naseeb — that is already written. What I can promise is an honest introduction, made with care, between families I know. The talking, the trusting, the rest of the story — that part is yours to write.”
Who is Sajida?
Sajida reads every biodata herself, and introduces only families she would trust with her own. She speaks with parents as well as the person searching, keeps every detail private, and stays with both families until they decide.
For matrimony, she makes every introduction herself — privately, from Dallas–Fort Worth.
How a match is made
No swiping and no group chats. A matchmaker your parents can call, in four steps at your pace.
Register & add the biodata
Free during the founding window. Your biodata and photos are encrypted and seen only by Sajida.
Sajida shortlists
Sajida screens families she knows and trusts, and brings you a short list. No mass-forwarding.
Families meet
The traditional way: with both families' blessing, over chai, at your pace.
Mubarak — it's a yes
When both families say yes, the rishta is confirmed. Sajida stays with you throughout.
Free to begin. No surprises.
Registration is free while the founding window is open. We’re starting with our masjid community. The success fee is due only when it’s a yes.
Registration
Private biodata intake, Sajida’s screening and shortlists. Free for now — $100 afterward.
Founding families · freeSuccess fee
Due only when both families confirm the rishta. No match, no fee.
Non-refundableWhy non-refundable? Matchmaking is hours of calls and screening that can’t be taken back. Registration is free during the founding window; the $500 success fee is everything else. Optional public-records checks are at cost, only on request and with consent. Duas and tips are welcome, never expected.
Privacy is built in
No public profiles, no browsing, no ads. Nothing is shared without consent.
A person, not a score
Sajida reads your biodata and matches by her own judgement. No algorithm decides who you meet.
Encrypted records
Your registration is encrypted (AES-256) and readable only by Sajida. A database breach would reveal no names or numbers.
Photos encrypted, never public
Encrypted, with no public link. Only Sajida sees them, and they are erased when your search closes.
No public profiles, ever
Nothing to browse or screenshot. Your details go to one family at a time, only with your yes.
Consent before anything
The system will not create an introduction until both families say yes.
Checks, when you want them
Optional public-records checks through an accredited provider, on request and with the candidate's consent. Results go only to you.
Yours to erase
One message deletes your record, any time. Payments go through Stripe, so we never see your card number.
No ads, nothing sold
We never sell, share or rent your data. No advertising and no ad trackers. We are paid only for the rishta.
Exactly how your information is protected
And as the community grows — a secure mobile app is on the roadmap, carrying these same promises with it.
An honest word
We are matchmakers, not investigators.
Sajida’s does not run automatic background checks — though for added assurance we can arrange a public-records check on request, always with the candidate’s consent. And no one honest can guarantee a person’s character or how a marriage will unfold. What we do, we do with all our heart: bring well-intentioned families together to talk, meet and work it out themselves.
What we do
- Hand-made, discreet introductions
- Families Sajida personally knows or is referred to
- Honest context, shared with permission
- Both families involved from day one
What we don’t
- No checks without the candidate's consent
- No guarantee of anyone’s character
- No promise of how things turn out
- No pressure, ever, in any direction
What’s yours
- Take your time — meet more than once
- Ask your own questions — or request a public-records check
- Involve your elders; pray istikhara
- The decision, always, is yours alone
Meeting safely & well
House rules for every family we introduce.
Family present, always
First meetings happen with elders present, at home, at the masjid or somewhere public.
Take your time
Meet more than once. Pray istikhara.
Verify what matters
Ask for references from the imam, workplace or community, or ask Sajida for an optional public-records check.
No money between families
Never send money or valuables to a match. If anyone asks, tell Sajida and the introduction ends.
Declining is honourable
A “no, thank you” is normal. Sajida passes it on for you.
Anything feels off? Say so
Message Sajida and the introduction is closed, no questions asked.
The first families are beginning their search. Real stories appear here only after the couple approves them.
Sajida's Matrimony, in brief
- What it is
- Private, family-first rishta matchmaking by one named matchmaker, Sajida. It is not an app or a database of profiles: there is nothing to browse.
- Who it's for
- Muslim and desi families in the USA (18+): parents searching for a son or daughter, practising and conservative families, and divorced or widowed Muslims marrying again. The wider diaspora is welcome.
- Where
- Sajida is based in Dallas–Fort Worth, Texas, and serves families across the United States.
- How it works
- Register privately, Sajida reads your biodata and shortlists by her own judgement, and two families are introduced only when both say yes. Families meet at their own pace.
- Privacy
- Your details and photos are encrypted and seen only by Sajida. No public profile is ever created, and you can delete your record yourself at any time. Read how your information is protected.
- Cost
- Registration is free during the current founding window (normally a one-time $100), and a $500 success fee, due only when both families confirm the rishta. The first conversation is free.
- How to begin
- A parent, guardian or the candidate can begin registration with a short private form (there is no app or account), or message Sajida first.
Questions families ask
What is a rishta, exactly?
A family-first introduction toward marriage. Instead of browsing strangers, two families are introduced by someone they trust, here Sajida, and take it at their own pace.
Is it really private?
Yes. No public profiles, no browsing. Your details are encrypted and seen only by Sajida. Nothing is shared with another family until both sides say they're interested.
Do you run background checks?
We are matchmakers, not investigators, so there are no automatic checks. On request, we can arrange a public-records check with the candidate's consent.
Do you help with second marriages?
Yes, for divorced and widowed Muslims, with the same care and discretion.
Where is Sajida based?
In Dallas–Fort Worth, Texas. She serves Muslim and desi families across the USA, and the wider diaspora is welcome.
Is this suitable for practising or conservative families?
Yes. There are no apps, no public profiles and no browsing; families (and a wali, if you wish) can lead from the first word, and nothing is shared until both families agree.
How is this different from Muzz, Salams or Shaadi.com?
Those are apps where members browse and message each other. Here there is nothing to browse: Sajida hand-matches families privately and introduces only with both families' consent.
What does it cost?
Registration is free during the current founding window (normally a one-time $100), and a $500 success fee, due only when both families confirm the rishta. The first conversation is free.
How do we register?
A parent, guardian or the candidate can begin registration with a short private form; there is no app or account to create. Sajida then follows up personally on WhatsApp.
Can we delete our details?
Yes, any time. Under "Track your search" on the matrimony page, enter your reference and the last 4 digits of your WhatsApp number to delete your record permanently, photos included. Closed searches are erased automatically too. See how your information is protected.
Begin when your family is ready
Registration is free during the founding window, and the first conversation is free. Sajida reads every registration herself, privately.
Begin registrationTrack your search
Enter the reference from your registration and the last 4 digits of your WhatsApp number to see where things stand.
Plan the wedding look when it is time.
Register once with Sajida. The jewels and bridal dress stay in reach without asking your family to repeat the story.